Friday, October 28, 2011

One Child, Two Child, 3 What???

As my husband is deployed currently, we will definitely be holding steady at just one for a little while.

But, long term, I don’t know the answer…I guess we will have to wait and see J
My husband comes from a family of 3 only 5 years apart total, and without a doubt wants another a baby, but only one more.  And, he would like them close together.

I have one sister and we are 5 years apart.  So, if we were to have a second child, I like the distance between us.

There are the moments where you look at family finances and say, how can we do it? Daycare? Medical bills? Clothes? Shoes? College tuition one day…the list goes on!
Then, of course, there are the nights, I am rocking sweet Caroline in my arms and absolutely can’t imagine not experiencing these moments again.

Then, there is great debate of spacing…my sister and I have never competed for teams, friends, boyfriends, etc.  However; it has only been recently that we have been able to develop a closer friendship because of the age gap between us. 
So, what will we do? Who knows? Right now, I am loving on my sweet girl and savoring every last moment!

2 comments:

  1. Stopping from Kelly's Korner! I have only one, but I loved having sisters when I was growing up. We were all about 14 months apart.

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  2. Hi! Stopping by from SUYL. These decisions are never easy!

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